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A blaze of fire against darkness Kink, pain and extreme sensation
Statue of woman kneeling with head bowed and hands offering something What motivates 24/7 submission?
Little African girl in headscarf laughs and covers her face Communicating While Submissive
Statue of angel against sunset Sub Ethics: Owning Our Power
Green leaf in palm of black-and-white hand Submissive Strength: Contradiction or Koan?
German Shepherd next to a soldier holding a gun Are You Strong Enough to Submit?
Statue of kneeling woman arranging her hair Submissive Power Is Hot Stuff
Stained-glass window: Angel with four naked boys My Submissive Icons Are … Strong?!
Little African girl in headscarf laughs and covers her face Communicating While Submissive: Teaser
Portrait of King Henry VII Condescension, or Kindness from Above
Pages of a book curved to form a warmly lit heart The Love Letter of O
Batman toy holding up Joker-in-a-box You Want Reactions? (Part 2)
Superman toy eye-to-eye with rubber chicken You Want Reactions? (Part 1)
Blonde girl bowing Protocols. I Want.
Cartoon of grey wolf Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr. Slut
Fire-eater Pain Is a Battering Bastard … And More (Part 2)
Hand clutching fence Pain Is a Battering Bastard … And More (Part 1)
A fiery background seen through a heart shape Gasp, Shake, Thank You
Diogenes in his barrel, watched by attentive dogs Subs Need Classes Too!
Waiter pouring wine Am I Just Selfish? Service vs. Control
Gingerbread man lowering another gingerbread man into toaster Diabolical Genius, or I Love Interrogation
Hands making a heart around baby feet Abject Submission 3: Only the Gift
Man struggling with tied wrists Dark Erotica Fail
Statue of naked supine woman and winged, clawed demon crouched on her Abject Submission 2: Lit Survey
Backlit knife behind a curtain Abject Submission 1: Is it bad for me?
Agonised soldier pinned by aluminium baseball bat Let’s Talk About Masochism
Naked collared young man, head bowed, facing away The Submissive Ache: Wanting and Waiting
Girl with coat collar over lower face I’m Assertive Because I’m Weak – And Unashamed
Kitten hiding between concrete slabs Review: CollarMe.com and My Off Switch
Young woman lying on forest floor, palms up Frost Nails Masochism

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Agonised soldier pinned by aluminium baseball bat Let’s Talk About Masochism
Statue of naked supine woman and winged, clawed demon crouched on her Abject Submission 2: Lit Survey
Hand clutching fence Pain Is a Battering Bastard … And More (Part 1)
Little African girl in headscarf laughs and covers her face Communicating While Submissive
Alert silver tabby kitten Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1

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Latest Posts

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