Tag Archives: Dating & mingling

Fountain pen resting on yellowed letter

First Contact: A Sort‑of‑Guest Post

Fountain pen resting on yellowed letter

Irregular updates from now on. Sorry, real life comes first! If you hang out with female kinksters, then you’ve heard us complain about the messages we get from strange men. They’re not all awful. But the net badness corrodes the soul. There are very few things that help: Venting with other kinky women. Talking to […]

Girl with coat collar over lower face

I’m Assertive Because I’m Weak – And Unashamed

Girl with coat collar over lower face

I have read that American women feel obliged to seem cheerful and friendly to strangers, even when they’re actually grumpy or scared. Not being American, this was difficult for me to believe until a domme friend told me about something terrifying that happened to her, just walking to the train station. Maybe you’ll think it […]

Kitten hiding between concrete slabs

Review: CollarMe.com and My Off Switch

Kitten hiding between concrete slabs

Review of website: CollarSpace.com CollarMe.com (kinky personals). The morning after I signed up at CollarMe.com, I happened to start daydreaming about one of my favourite books, and a bolt of arousal shot through me. Normally this would not have been such a surprise, but I had believed I was dead between the legs due to […]