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Safety & Ethics

Statue of angel against sunset Sub Ethics: Owning Our Power
Gallows It’s a Bad Day for Rope Consent
Mask of a beautiful woman with empty eyes How Should We Respond to Sociopaths?
Silhouette doing karate high kick Jian Ghomeshi: Scum of the Earth
Traffic lights with red heart, amber star, green teardrop The Consent Debate: Then and Now
Cartoon of grey wolf Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr. Slut
A prostrate Tigger offering a candy cane in both front paws Top Trust: Guest Post by Dr. Slut
Silhouette of a horned, bearded man against a lake of fire When a Dom Drops Hard: Guest Post by Cowhideman
Gingerbread man cheerfully grating another gingerbread man What Would Eric Pride Do?
A hand offered palm-up Consent Alone Is Not Enough: Guest Post by david stein
Leather Pride flag First, Do No Harm: Guest Post by david stein
Pinocchio puppet on a rainy cobbled street with coloured lights in the distance Real Doesn’t Have to Be Toxic
Knife dripping with out-of-focus face in background Am I Part of the Problem?
Red eye Ariel Castro: The Psychopath in the Mirror?
Girl with coat collar over lower face I’m Assertive Because I’m Weak – And Unashamed

My Favourites

Little African girl in headscarf laughs and covers her face Communicating While Submissive
Alert silver tabby kitten Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1
Statue of naked supine woman and winged, clawed demon crouched on her Abject Submission 2: Lit Survey
Batman toy holding up Joker-in-a-box You Want Reactions? (Part 2)
Backlit knife behind a curtain Abject Submission 1: Is it bad for me?

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Latest Posts

  • Hello and goodbye again 26 September 2024
  • Kink, pain and extreme sensation 20 May 2024
  • Experiment over 19 May 2024
  • Hello and goodbye 10 October 2023
  • What motivates 24/7 submission? 11 April 2020
  • e[lust] #76 – Sex After Birth 20 November 2015
  • Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 2 10 October 2015
  • Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1 4 September 2015
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