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Monthly Archives: April 2015

It’s a Bad Day for Rope Consent
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It’s a Bad Day for Rope Consent

24 April 2015 Xiao Yingtai 4 Comments
It’s a Bad Day for Rope Consent

I’m troubled by the recent consent violation news in the FetLife rope community. I need to clear a crazy work deadline before I write about it, but I thought I would at least share the reports with you for now. Please note that you will need a FetLife login (it’s free). And if you want … Continue reading It’s a Bad Day for Rope Consent →

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