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Kink, pain and extreme sensation
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Kink, pain and extreme sensation

20 May 2024 Xiao Yingtai
Kink, pain and extreme sensation

You know there are people who say sadism and masochism are not about pain, they’re about extreme sensation? After long covid, I’m pretty sure which side of this debate I’m on. On days when I have a little more energy, I want to feel my head wrenched back by my hair, I want to struggle … Continue reading Kink, pain and extreme sensation →

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Experiment over

19 May 2024 Xiao Yingtai 2 Comments
Experiment over

Remember I said I was going to try moving to another blog as an experiment? It’s been over six months now, and the experiment is over. I’m going to close that blog down and come back here. I started the other blog because there hasn’t been a lot of abject submission in my life since … Continue reading Experiment over →

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