Hello, old friends. It’s been a very long time. And I’m afraid you may not like my news. I’m starting a new blog because it doesn’t feel right to come back here. I still love this old place. I made it to delight my eyes and it does just that. The tags and 404 page … Continue reading Hello and goodbye
Someone asked on Twitter about what motivates 24/7 subs. The replies went like this: Safety; Freedom from control, responsibility; Order, instruction, framework, accountability; Being useful to someone else, greater purpose; Intimacy. For me? Firstly, this is not a choice. This is something I find myself doing automatically. And when someone else wants it too, it … Continue reading What motivates 24/7 submission?
Welcome to Elust #76 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back November 1st … Continue reading e[lust] #76 – Sex After Birth
Last time I told you about my feline identity crisis. I was afraid I wasn’t a kitten. Actually, it was worse than that. I was afraid I’d never been a kitten at all. Yes, I had done a lot of meowing and fun dashing around and studious ignoring of so-called rules. But observing myself post-breakup, … Continue reading Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 2
One day a kitten said to a kitten owner, “I wish I had a tail. But unfortunately I think I’m a Manx kitten.” Said he, “You can have a tail!” “But I want the kind of tail that the incredibly vain dog has in one of J.K. Rowling’s favourite books. It’s like an ostrich plume … Continue reading Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1
No time to blog deep thoughts! I’ve been working on my second-ever commissioned piece. A slave friend has ordered this for her master, Sir Raven, and it’s SO MUCH FUN. How often do I get to do both English and Chinese in the same piece? And the perfect amount of text! Here’s the mockup I … Continue reading Rough Draft: Raven’s Nest
The silent auction was cancelled. :( But I kind of promised you guys. So here it is! And thank you, TES Fest, for Making Me Do It. Sort of. :p
I’m going to do a piece of calligraphy for charity. You see, I’m going to TES Fest next weekend. They’re having a silent auction to raise funds for the Leather Heart Foundation and NCSF. Both great causes! But I’m not sure what I should write. Please help me decide? 1. Beatings quote “The beatings will … Continue reading Vote on Calligraphy!
Originally written for Submissive Guide. Doms keep telling us that they’re not mind-readers, so we have to communicate. But it’s hard! Especially when it’s something they might not want to hear. The good news is that there is always a submissive way to say it. And you never have to compromise the message. Here is … Continue reading Communicating While Submissive
This is the fifth post in the Submissive Power series. Once upon a time there was a play-fight, and I was pinned. In my total inexperience, I shoved my elbow backwards, and hey presto, there was a long man on the floor. I didn’t know whether to laugh or to panic. It didn’t help when … Continue reading Sub Ethics: Owning Our Power
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