The vanilla dialogues – The University of Abject Submission / BDSM, books and missing links by Xiao Yingtai Thu, 26 Sep 2024 18:57:58 +0000 en-US hourly 1 What motivates 24/7 submission? /what-motivates-24-7-submission/ Sat, 11 Apr 2020 00:00:04 +0000 /?p=7643 Continue reading What motivates 24/7 submission? →]]> My Emotional Masochism Isn’t Therapy /emotional-masochism-is-not-therapy/ /emotional-masochism-is-not-therapy/#comments Sat, 21 Mar 2015 13:31:45 +0000 /?p=6036 Continue reading My Emotional Masochism Isn’t Therapy →]]> /emotional-masochism-is-not-therapy/feed/ 9 Definitions, Dammit /definitions-dammit/ /definitions-dammit/#comments Sun, 16 Nov 2014 13:04:20 +0000 /?p=5499 Continue reading Definitions, Dammit →]]> /definitions-dammit/feed/ 2 The Love Letter of O /the-love-letter-of-o/ /the-love-letter-of-o/#comments Fri, 17 Oct 2014 07:05:51 +0000 /?p=5230 Continue reading The Love Letter of O →]]> /the-love-letter-of-o/feed/ 6 Protocols. I Want. /protocols-i-want/ /protocols-i-want/#comments Sat, 23 Aug 2014 11:40:00 +0000 /?p=4714 Continue reading Protocols. I Want. →]]> /protocols-i-want/feed/ 14 Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr. Slut /rape-play-is-not-rape/ /rape-play-is-not-rape/#comments Sat, 09 Aug 2014 03:25:56 +0000 /?p=4590 Continue reading Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr. Slut →]]> /rape-play-is-not-rape/feed/ 6 Not Censored. Thank You Everyone! /not-censored-thank-you-everyone/ /not-censored-thank-you-everyone/#comments Thu, 01 May 2014 07:30:47 +0000 /?p=2877 Continue reading Not Censored. Thank You Everyone! →]]> /not-censored-thank-you-everyone/feed/ 10 Censored and Welcomed /censored-and-welcomed/ /censored-and-welcomed/#comments Sun, 27 Apr 2014 16:58:44 +0000 /?p=2732 Continue reading Censored and Welcomed →]]> /censored-and-welcomed/feed/ 2 Ariel Castro: The Psychopath in the Mirror? /ariel-castro-the-unheeded-call/ /ariel-castro-the-unheeded-call/#comments Sat, 29 Mar 2014 12:30:22 +0000 http://abjectsub.wordpress.com/?p=1623 Continue reading Ariel Castro: The Psychopath in the Mirror? →]]> /ariel-castro-the-unheeded-call/feed/ 15 Let’s Talk About Masochism /self-esteem-for-bottoms/ /self-esteem-for-bottoms/#comments Sat, 22 Mar 2014 12:00:41 +0000 http://abjectsub.wordpress.com/?p=1297 Continue reading Let’s Talk About Masochism →]]> /self-esteem-for-bottoms/feed/ 4 Coming Out: The Sequel /coming-out-sequel/ /coming-out-sequel/#comments Thu, 13 Mar 2014 23:30:07 +0000 http://abjectsub.wordpress.com/?p=833 Continue reading Coming Out: The Sequel →]]> /coming-out-sequel/feed/ 3 A Coming-Out Letter /coming-out-letter/ /coming-out-letter/#comments Fri, 28 Feb 2014 14:00:16 +0000 http://abjectsub.wordpress.com/?p=480 Continue reading A Coming-Out Letter →]]> /coming-out-letter/feed/ 6