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		<title>Kink, pain and extreme sensation</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2024 04:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[You know there are people who say sadism and masochism are not about pain, they&#8217;re about extreme sensation? After long covid, I&#8217;m pretty sure which side of this debate I&#8217;m on. On days when I have a little more energy, I want to feel my head wrenched back by my hair, I want to struggle &#8230; <a href="/kink-pain-and-extreme-sensation/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Kink, pain and extreme sensation</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>My Emotional Masochism Isn&#8217;t Therapy</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Mar 2015 13:31:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Last week, guest blogger Cava Supernova asked, provocatively, &#8220;Is racism sexy?&#8221; She told us the story of an early kink encounter in which an awesome black man begged her to call him her nigger and her sex slave boy. This out-of-the-blue request floored poor Cava and she asked us to help her figure it out. &#8230; <a href="/emotional-masochism-is-not-therapy/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">My Emotional Masochism Isn&#8217;t Therapy</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>You Want Reactions? (Part&#160;2)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2014 12:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Part 1 of this post reported on the second-most common complaint from tops, &#8220;Give me real reactions, dammit!&#8221; On behalf of all of us down here, I protested that we are good boys and girls and we are (mostly) not doing it on purpose. According to a kinky friend who wrangles minds for a living, &#8230; <a href="/you-want-reactions-part-2/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">You Want Reactions? (Part&#160;2)</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>You Want Reactions? (Part&#160;1)</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2014 12:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The number one top complaint is definitely &#8220;I can&#8217;t read your mind!&#8221; But it gets stiff competition from its close cousin: &#8220;Give me real reactions, dammit!&#8221; This I can sympathise with. Scening is all about what&#8217;s going on in the bottom&#8217;s head. Me and my kind naturally have privileged access to this contested territory, but &#8230; <a href="/you-want-reactions-part-1/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">You Want Reactions? (Part&#160;1)</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Top Trust: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Slut]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2014 04:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest post is about an ethical top&#8217;s second-worst nightmare. Trigger warning: Rape role-play, pushing boundaries, hardcore knives. We’re so used to talking about bottoms trusting tops. It seems so obvious: if you’re going to let somebody beat you up, stab you with needles, shove a fist up your ass, whip you, dangle you by &#8230; <a href="/top-trust/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Top Trust: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>When a Dom Drops Hard: Guest Post by Cowhideman</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cowhideman]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2014 04:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest blogger is Cowhideman, the patient and prolific leader of FetLife&#8217;s Novices &#38; Newbies group (login required). Crucially for us, he&#8217;s also brave enough to talk about the glory and horror of topspace. Enjoy! In a recent discussion thread, someone mentioned that their relatively novice Dom has suddenly shut down and very nearly stopped &#8230; <a href="/when-a-dom-drops-hard/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">When a Dom Drops Hard: Guest Post by Cowhideman</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Gasp, Shake, Thank You</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2014 12:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[15 July 2019: This top was later shown to have been abusing his slaves. In hindsight, it was a bad sign that I was safewording repeatedly during this scene. Luckily, I still enjoyed it overall. Original header: This post is about me being hurt and frightened. Intensely. It made me very happy. But if it &#8230; <a href="/gasp-shake-thank-you/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Gasp, Shake, Thank You</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>What Would Eric Pride Do?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2014 04:01:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eric Pride has left the community in the wake of pro-consent movements, stating that we have started tearing each other apart instead of standing by each other. I am sad that he is not who I thought he was. This post is part of the Eek! series. As you may recall, I recently volunteered to &#8230; <a href="/what-would-eric-pride-do/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">What Would Eric Pride Do?</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Diabolical Genius, or I&#160;Love Interrogation</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2014 18:25:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eric Pride has left the community in the wake of pro-consent movements, stating that we have started tearing each other apart instead of standing by each other. I&#8217;m sad that he is not who I thought he was. This post is part of the Eek! series. Also an e[lust] top three pick! Eric Pride is &#8230; <a href="/diabolical-genius/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Diabolical Genius, or I&#160;Love Interrogation</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Eek!</title>
		<link>/i-love-interrogation-part-1/</link>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2014 03:55:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eric Pride has left the community in the wake of pro-consent movements, stating that we have started tearing each other apart instead of standing by each other. I&#8217;m sad that he is not who I thought he was. This post is part of the Eek! series. I am ridiculously happy today. But it takes a &#8230; <a href="/i-love-interrogation-part-1/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Eek!</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: &#8220;Anatomy of a Play Scene&#8221; by Eric Pride</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Feb 2014 12:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eric Pride has left the community in the wake of pro-consent movements, stating that we have started tearing each other apart instead of standing by each other. I&#8217;m sad that he is not who I thought he was. Review of presentation: &#8220;Anatomy of a Play Scene&#8221; by Eric Pride (DomSubFriends at Paddles NYC, 21 Feb &#8230; <a href="/anatomy-of-a-play-scene/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Review: &#8220;Anatomy of a Play Scene&#8221; by Eric Pride</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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