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		<title>Leather Writing Awards 2015</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 May 2015 12:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This announcement is old (20 April), but I thought you might appreciate a linked version. The 👍 emoji indicates finalists, the 🏆 emoji winners. Enjoy! SEMI-FINALISTS ANNOUNCED FOR 2015 NLA-I WRITING AWARDS (Columbus, OH) — National Leather Association &#8211; International (NLA-I), a leading organization for activists in the pansexual SM/leather/fetish community, announced today the semi-finalists &#8230; <a href="/leather-book-awards-2015/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Leather Writing Awards 2015</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>The Consent Debate: Then&#160;and&#160;Now</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2014 04:01:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I started a BDSM classics reading group! People actually signed up and everything! Squee! Ahem. For our first meeting on 3rd September, we&#8217;re going to read seminal essays from the Safe Sane Consensual debate. Unsafe at Any Speed, or Safe, Sane, and Consensual, My Fanny by Laura Antoniou (1995) The SSC Mistake by Joseph W. Bean &#8230; <a href="/the-consent-debate-then-and-now/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">The Consent Debate: Then&#160;and&#160;Now</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Subs Need Classes Too!</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2014 04:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Edit: The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up has answered practically all my prayers below. I don&#8217;t even do rope and I want to memorise it. Hallelujah! Summer is convention season. People keep telling me they can&#8217;t meet up because they&#8217;re going to be at hotels, camps or tea parties. So I&#8217;ve been looking through &#8230; <a href="/subs-need-classes-too/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Subs Need Classes Too!</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Dark Erotica Fail</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2014 12:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. After reading my last post about stories that do it for me, a friend asked, &#8220;What about Abuse → No rescue → Happy ending? Doesn&#8217;t that storyline exist?&#8221; In a way, yes. And some people love &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2a-dark-erotica-fail/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Dark Erotica Fail</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Leather Writing Awards 2014</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2014 11:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks to Cecilia Tan, Laura Antoniou and C for encouraging me to republish their text. I have added my favourite book covers. Winners are indicated with the &#x1f3c6; emoji. Check out the 2012 finalists too. (Columbus, OH) — National Leather Association: International (NLA-I), a leading organization for activists in the pansexual SM/leather/fetish community, announced today the finalists for &#8230; <a href="/finalists-announced-for-nla-i-writing-awards-2013/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Leather Writing Awards 2014</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 12:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. As you know, I have started to worry whether my kink of abject submission is really about self-injury. Fiction proved to be such a good window into my fears that I decided to look harder at &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2-lit-survey/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>When You Need a (Kinky) Laugh</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Apr 2014 12:30:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We all need a bit of cheering up after that last post. But as a non-practical-joker, I was handicapped in celebrating April Fools&#8217; Day. Instead, may I belatedly offer you some variegated entertainment in the form of images, words and music? First, here is my spanking new Pinterest board, BDSM Humour: Follow Yingtai&#8217;s board BDSM Humour on Pinterest. &#8230; <a href="/when-you-need-a-kinky-laugh/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">When You Need a (Kinky) Laugh</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Subverted Tropes: The Fiction of the Unexpected</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2014 05:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love the traditional tropes of BDSM and slave fic &#8211; melting the dom&#8217;s dom, rescuing the fragile abused slave, Evil Is Sexy, mmmmm. But I also love it when authors turn these tropes inside out. Here are my favourites of this kind, fan fiction and original work, free and paid. They&#8217;re all completed works &#8230; <a href="/subverted-tropes/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Subverted Tropes: The Fiction of the Unexpected</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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