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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2014 07:58:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. The critical reader may have noticed that I skipped over a pressing question in Abject Submission 3: Only the Gift. As you know, I realised to my surprise that some stories about emotional abuse were actually good for &#8230; <a href="/should-i-just-say-no/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Just Say No?</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 3: Only&#160;the&#160;Gift</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2014 12:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. As you know, a few weeks ago I was frightened by my kink. I already knew I had been eroticising my depression last year &#8211; we emotional masochists are capable of amazing feats &#8211; but now I wondered if I had &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-3-only-the-gift/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 3: Only&#160;the&#160;Gift</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2014 12:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. After reading my last post about stories that do it for me, a friend asked, &#8220;What about Abuse → No rescue → Happy ending? Doesn&#8217;t that storyline exist?&#8221; In a way, yes. And some people love &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2a-dark-erotica-fail/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Dark Erotica Fail</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 12:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. As you know, I have started to worry whether my kink of abject submission is really about self-injury. Fiction proved to be such a good window into my fears that I decided to look harder at &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2-lit-survey/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 1: Is&#160;it&#160;bad&#160;for&#160;me?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2014 12:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is Part&#160;1 of the Is It Bad for Me? series. I am shaken. So far, all the the shame and guilt you&#8217;ve seen in this blog should really have been in the past tense. I knew people needed to hear my stories, so I told them, but after sixteen years you do get &#8230; <a href="/is-abject-submission-bad-for-me/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 1: Is&#160;it&#160;bad&#160;for&#160;me?</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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