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		<title>Marketplace Q&#038;A with Laura Antoniou</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2015 12:26:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When Laura Antoniou heard that the BDSM Classics Reading Group was discussing her novel The Marketplace, she offered to come over to our FetLife group to answer our questions. WOW. Now that&#8217;s fan service! We are repaying her generosity with the toughest questions we could manage. Thank you so much, Laura! 1. Not all of &#8230; <a href="/marketplace-q-and-a-with-laura-antoniou/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Marketplace Q&#038;A with Laura Antoniou</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>First Contact: A&#160;Sort‑of‑Guest&#160;Post</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2014 02:35:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Irregular updates from now on. Sorry, real life comes first! If you hang out with female kinksters, then you&#8217;ve heard us complain about the messages we get from strange men. They&#8217;re not all awful. But the net badness corrodes the soul. There are very few things that help: Venting with other kinky women. Talking to &#8230; <a href="/first-contact/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">First Contact: A&#160;Sort‑of‑Guest&#160;Post</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2014 03:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The inimitable Dr. Slut returns! Today she tells us more about one of her favourite things: not-rape. Trigger warning: rape role-play, sexual trauma, swords. The idea that a guy might beg his tormentor to stop whipping and flogging him even though he was, in some complicated way enjoying it, is so intuitively built into BDSM &#8230; <a href="/rape-play-is-not-rape/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Rape Play Is Not Rape: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Top Trust: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Aug 2014 04:33:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest post is about an ethical top&#8217;s second-worst nightmare. Trigger warning: Rape role-play, pushing boundaries, hardcore knives. We’re so used to talking about bottoms trusting tops. It seems so obvious: if you’re going to let somebody beat you up, stab you with needles, shove a fist up your ass, whip you, dangle you by &#8230; <a href="/top-trust/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Top Trust: Guest Post by Dr.&#160;Slut</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>When a Dom Drops Hard: Guest Post by Cowhideman</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2014 04:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest blogger is Cowhideman, the patient and prolific leader of FetLife&#8217;s Novices &#38; Newbies group (login required). Crucially for us, he&#8217;s also brave enough to talk about the glory and horror of topspace. Enjoy! In a recent discussion thread, someone mentioned that their relatively novice Dom has suddenly shut down and very nearly stopped &#8230; <a href="/when-a-dom-drops-hard/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">When a Dom Drops Hard: Guest Post by Cowhideman</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Consent Alone Is Not Enough: Guest&#160;Post by david&#160;stein</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2014 11:30:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I asked david stein if this important essay has been posted anywhere outside FetLife, and he promptly gave me permission to repost it here.I don&#8217;t deserve the honour. This is the man who originated &#8220;Safe, Sane and Consensual&#8221; and much more.But let&#8217;s seize the chance to read the essay here and now, before I manage &#8230; <a href="/consent-alone-is-not-enough/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Consent Alone Is Not Enough: Guest&#160;Post by david&#160;stein</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>First, Do No Harm: Guest&#160;Post&#160;by david&#160;stein</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[david stein]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2014 11:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today&#8217;s guest blogger is david stein, the gay slave who originated the phrase &#8220;Safe, Sane and Consensual&#8221; way back in the 1980s.(Brief recess to retrieve our jaws from the floor.)More recently, he authored the incredibly valuable non-fiction resource Ask the Man Who Owns Him: The real lives of gay Masters and slaves and the embarrassingly hot &#8230; <a href="/david-stein-on-ethics/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">First, Do No Harm: Guest&#160;Post&#160;by david&#160;stein</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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