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		<title>I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2014 04:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I usually update every 5 days. But my chronic aches have been bad. I&#8217;m officially out of pre-written posts. Will I manage another one by 1 August? Wish me luck! The French have a word for it: l&#8217;esprit d&#8217;escalier. Literally, staircase wit. The perfect retort that only occurs to you after it&#8217;s too late. But &#8230; <a href="/i-wish-i-had-said-that/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Am I Part of the Problem?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2014 01:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Two months ago I called for BDSM bloggers to write about vanilla tragedies. Now the blogosphere is churning with horror at the UC Santa Barbara mass shooting by Elliot Rodger. But nobody seems to be answering the first question I asked myself: Am I part of the problem? I&#8217;m a straight submissive woman. I was &#8230; <a href="/am-i-part-of-the-problem/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Am I Part of the Problem?</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>I&#8217;m Assertive Because I&#8217;m Weak &#8211;&#160;And Unashamed</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2014 01:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have read that American women feel obliged to seem cheerful and friendly to strangers, even when they&#8217;re actually grumpy or scared. Not being American, this was difficult for me to believe until a domme friend told me about something terrifying that happened to her, just walking to the train station. Maybe you&#8217;ll think it &#8230; <a href="/i-am-assertive-because-i-am-weak/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">I&#8217;m Assertive Because I&#8217;m Weak &#8211;&#160;And Unashamed</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Review: CollarMe.com and My&#160;Off&#160;Switch</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2014 14:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Review of website: CollarSpace.com CollarMe.com (kinky personals). The morning after I signed up at CollarMe.com, I happened to start daydreaming about one of my favourite books, and a bolt of arousal shot through me. Normally this would not have been such a surprise, but I had believed I was dead between the legs due to &#8230; <a href="/collarme-and-my-off-switch/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Review: CollarMe.com and My&#160;Off&#160;Switch</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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