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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jun 2015 11:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Originally written for Submissive Guide. Doms keep telling us that they&#8217;re not mind-readers, so we have to communicate. But it&#8217;s hard! Especially when it&#8217;s something they might not want to hear. The good news is that there is always a submissive way to say it. And you never have to compromise the message. Here is &#8230; <a href="/communicating-while-submissive-in-full/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Communicating While Submissive</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2015 07:03:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Yesterday was a terrible, horrible, no good day &#8211; until 6.20pm. Man on the street: Hello. [He gets a stare compounded of fury and trauma.] Him: Is something wrong? Me: You&#8217;re the second guy on the street who&#8217;s said hello to me today. And it doesn&#8217;t feel good. That was the low point of the &#8230; <a href="/how-to-apologise-when-you-are-calledout/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">How to Apologise When You&#8217;re Called&#160;Out</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2015 05:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is the second post in the Submissive Power series. It is a cliché that the sub has all the &#8220;real&#8221; power. And I really, really hope it&#8217;s not true. Yes, I can stop it any minute and yes, hotel security is a lot more likely to help me than him. (Apologies for non-inclusive language; &#8230; <a href="/submissive-power-is-hot-stuff/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Submissive Power Is Hot Stuff</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Dec 2014 03:14:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Today I am a guest blogger on Submissive Guide! With an essay that was Written in Blood. Doms keep telling us that they&#8217;re not mind-readers, so we have to communicate. But it&#8217;s hard! Especially when it&#8217;s something they might not want to hear. The good news is that there is always a submissive way to &#8230; <a href="/communicating-while-submissive/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Communicating While Submissive: Teaser</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2014 04:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I usually update every 5 days. But my chronic aches have been bad. I&#8217;m officially out of pre-written posts. Will I manage another one by 1 August? Wish me luck! The French have a word for it: l&#8217;esprit d&#8217;escalier. Literally, staircase wit. The perfect retort that only occurs to you after it&#8217;s too late. But &#8230; <a href="/i-wish-i-had-said-that/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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