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		<title>Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 2</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Oct 2015 15:30:41 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Last time I told you about my feline identity crisis. I was afraid I wasn&#8217;t a kitten. Actually, it was worse than that. I was afraid I&#8217;d never been a kitten at all. Yes, I had done a lot of meowing and fun dashing around and studious ignoring of so-called rules. But observing myself post-breakup, &#8230; <a href="/introducing-the-abject-kitten-part-2/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 2</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2015 11:56:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[One day a kitten said to a kitten owner, &#8220;I wish I had a tail. But unfortunately I think I&#8217;m a Manx kitten.&#8221; Said he, &#8220;You can have a tail!&#8221; &#8220;But I want the kind of tail that the incredibly vain dog has in one of J.K. Rowling&#8217;s favourite books. It&#8217;s like an ostrich plume &#8230; <a href="/introducing-the-abject-kitten-part-1/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Introducing the Abject Kitten, Part 1</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Submissive Power Is Hot Stuff</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Jan 2015 05:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This is the second post in the Submissive Power series. It is a cliché that the sub has all the &#8220;real&#8221; power. And I really, really hope it&#8217;s not true. Yes, I can stop it any minute and yes, hotel security is a lot more likely to help me than him. (Apologies for non-inclusive language; &#8230; <a href="/submissive-power-is-hot-stuff/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Submissive Power Is Hot Stuff</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Condescension, or Kindness from Above</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2014 04:38:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I remember the day my first dom taught me to beg. My initial attempts were ludicrous. &#8220;Please, sir &#8230;&#8221; Frantic mental efforts, not aided by his casually travelling hands. &#8220;You&#8217;re &#8230; very strong &#8230;&#8221; I remember the moment when his gigantic brain figured out that I didn&#8217;t even know how to do it. He stopped, &#8230; <a href="/condescension-or-kindness-from-above/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Condescension, or Kindness from Above</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Protocols. I&#160;Want.</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2014 11:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I love protocols. Do you want me to call you sir? Yes sir! (And apologies for the non-inclusive language, ma&#8217;am!) Do you want me on the floor? Prod me till I get the position right, please? Do you want me to heel you, or forget the word &#8216;but&#8217;, or owe every morsel of food to &#8230; <a href="/protocols-i-want/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Protocols. I&#160;Want.</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Gasp, Shake, Thank You</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jul 2014 12:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[15 July 2019: This top was later shown to have been abusing his slaves. In hindsight, it was a bad sign that I was safewording repeatedly during this scene. Luckily, I still enjoyed it overall. Original header: This post is about me being hurt and frightened. Intensely. It made me very happy. But if it &#8230; <a href="/gasp-shake-thank-you/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Gasp, Shake, Thank You</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 3: Only&#160;the&#160;Gift</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2014 12:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. As you know, a few weeks ago I was frightened by my kink. I already knew I had been eroticising my depression last year &#8211; we emotional masochists are capable of amazing feats &#8211; but now I wondered if I had &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-3-only-the-gift/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 3: Only&#160;the&#160;Gift</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Dark Erotica Fail</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2014 12:30:36 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. After reading my last post about stories that do it for me, a friend asked, &#8220;What about Abuse → No rescue → Happy ending? Doesn&#8217;t that storyline exist?&#8221; In a way, yes. And some people love &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2a-dark-erotica-fail/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Dark Erotica Fail</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2014 12:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is part of the Is It Bad for Me? series. You may wish to begin with Part&#160;1. As you know, I have started to worry whether my kink of abject submission is really about self-injury. Fiction proved to be such a good window into my fears that I decided to look harder at &#8230; <a href="/abject-submission-2-lit-survey/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 2: Lit&#160;Survey</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>Abject Submission 1: Is&#160;it&#160;bad&#160;for&#160;me?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2014 12:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[This post is Part&#160;1 of the Is It Bad for Me? series. I am shaken. So far, all the the shame and guilt you&#8217;ve seen in this blog should really have been in the past tense. I knew people needed to hear my stories, so I told them, but after sixteen years you do get &#8230; <a href="/is-abject-submission-bad-for-me/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Abject Submission 1: Is&#160;it&#160;bad&#160;for&#160;me?</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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