Comments on: Definitions, Dammit /definitions-dammit/ BDSM, books and missing links by Xiao Yingtai Tue, 16 Dec 2014 04:46:54 +0000 hourly 1 By: Xiao Yingtai /definitions-dammit/#comment-842 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 04:46:54 +0000 /?p=5499#comment-842 In reply to tygerboy.

Thanks! And you make a great point that I’ll have to think about. Maybe going with the flow is letting one part of you have the floor for a good long speech? That’s also very important for self-understanding. I guess when I mentioned internal censorship, I was thinking more of the times when I’ve had misgivings and don’t want to face them and evaluate them. Does that make sense?

]]> By: tygerboy /definitions-dammit/#comment-841 Tue, 16 Dec 2014 04:41:19 +0000 /?p=5499#comment-841 This is one of those delightful pieces of writing that just make you tingle. it’s short, articulate and just crammed with all sorts of deep thoughts. One thing struck me: Not thinking about certain things isn’t necessarily a form of self-censorship, is it? To me, we sometimes need to stop overthinking some aspects of our lives and just let things play out. Going with the feeling or just letting things happen can be the right answer.

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