<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Bloggery &#8211; The University of Abject Submission</title>
	<atom:link href="/category/tmi/bloggery/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>/</link>
	<description>BDSM, books and missing links by Xiao Yingtai</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Wed, 09 Oct 2024 09:22:43 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<language>en-US</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>
	hourly	</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>
	1	</sy:updateFrequency>
	
	<item>
		<title>Hello and goodbye again</title>
		<link>/hello-and-goodbye-again/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Sep 2024 11:53:32 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=11037</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m moving for real this time! My web hosting company hiked up their fees. So I&#8217;m going to convert this blog to a static archive and park it somewhere much cheaper. The archiving process will happen over the next two weeks or so. The website should keep working from your point of view, minus search, &#8230; <a href="/hello-and-goodbye-again/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Hello and goodbye again</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Experiment over</title>
		<link>/experiment-over/</link>
					<comments>/experiment-over/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2024 08:23:55 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=10744</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Remember I said I was going to try moving to another blog as an experiment? It&#8217;s been over six months now, and the experiment is over. I&#8217;m going to close that blog down and come back here. I started the other blog because there hasn&#8217;t been a lot of abject submission in my life since &#8230; <a href="/experiment-over/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Experiment over</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/experiment-over/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Hello and goodbye</title>
		<link>/hello-and-goodbye/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Oct 2023 12:19:30 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=10403</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Hello, old friends. It&#8217;s been a very long time. And I&#8217;m afraid you may not like my news. I&#8217;m starting a new blog because it doesn&#8217;t feel right to come back here. I still love this old place. I made it to delight my eyes and it does just that. The tags and 404 page &#8230; <a href="/hello-and-goodbye/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Hello and goodbye</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Happy Valenniversary to Me!</title>
		<link>/happy-valenniversary-to-me/</link>
					<comments>/happy-valenniversary-to-me/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Feb 2015 12:07:29 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=5925</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Happy Valentine&#8217;s Day from a happy single! It&#8217;s almost exactly a year since I walked out of my ex&#8217;s apartment with my head reeling. Not coincidentally, it&#8217;s also just about a year since I started blogging. There is causality there, but it&#8217;s not what you&#8217;d expect. I think blogging gave me the strength to say &#8230; <a href="/happy-valenniversary-to-me/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Happy Valenniversary to Me!</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/happy-valenniversary-to-me/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>2014: Don&#8217;t Lose the Answers</title>
		<link>/2014-dont-lose-the-answers/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2015 01:45:34 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Roundups]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=5724</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I have a confession. My favourite reading matter is this very blog. But I swear, it’s not just because I am so vain! It’s also because my memory is a sieve. It’s so bad that once when I was asked for a personal motto, I immediately ad-libbed, “Question Everything. Don’t Lose the Answers.” It’s particularly &#8230; <a href="/2014-dont-lose-the-answers/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">2014: Don&#8217;t Lose the Answers</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>What&#8217;s My Name? Of&#160;Calligraphy and Kowtowing</title>
		<link>/what-is-my-name-of-calligraphy-and-kowtowing/</link>
					<comments>/what-is-my-name-of-calligraphy-and-kowtowing/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2014 04:12:35 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Calligraphy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Scandalising the canon]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=4138</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[God I feel guilty. I promised you more calligraphy ages ago and I never coughed up. Please release me from the promise? See, my joints are not as recovered as I thought. And work is going to eat a lot of my pain tolerance for at least the next 12 months. But I will calligraph &#8230; <a href="/what-is-my-name-of-calligraphy-and-kowtowing/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">What&#8217;s My Name? Of&#160;Calligraphy and Kowtowing</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/what-is-my-name-of-calligraphy-and-kowtowing/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>I Stand Corrected: Four Months of Blogging</title>
		<link>/i-stand-corrected/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2014 04:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Devil on my back]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ethics]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Roundups]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Safety]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=3964</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Last week my blog was four months old. And I am stunned to realise that I&#8217;ve learnt more about my kink in four months of blogging than in a year of intensive reading before that. Unfortunately, that means that I&#8217;ve said things on this blog that I no longer believe. It&#8217;s time for me to &#8230; <a href="/i-stand-corrected/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">I Stand Corrected: Four Months of Blogging</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Celebrating three months of blogging</title>
		<link>/celebrating-three-months-of-blogging/</link>
					<comments>/celebrating-three-months-of-blogging/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2014 11:30:49 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Roundups]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=3345</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Today my blog is three months old! To celebrate, here is a rapid-fire review of all 28 posts to date. February 2014 Thank you for hurting me. Hey look, subversive stories! Some like it rough. Maybe casual scening isn&#8217;t so bad. Love is a hard master. There is no why. March 2014 It&#8217;s just like teaching preschool. Muggles &#8230; <a href="/celebrating-three-months-of-blogging/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Celebrating three months of blogging</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/celebrating-three-months-of-blogging/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Not Censored. Thank&#160;You Everyone!</title>
		<link>/not-censored-thank-you-everyone/</link>
					<comments>/not-censored-thank-you-everyone/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2014 07:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Calligraphy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The vanilla dialogues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[TMI]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=2877</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[Irregular updates from now on. And yes, that&#8217;s my calligraphy. You guys are amazing! Support came from everywhere &#8211; BDSM blogging friends, Blogging 201 classmates, WordPress staff and HostGator staff. I got scared after my last post, because Ferns alerted me to one of her old posts on the Domme Chronicles. It seems that last year &#8230; <a href="/not-censored-thank-you-everyone/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Not Censored. Thank&#160;You Everyone!</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/not-censored-thank-you-everyone/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>10</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
		<item>
		<title>Censored and Welcomed</title>
		<link>/censored-and-welcomed/</link>
					<comments>/censored-and-welcomed/#comments</comments>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Apr 2014 16:58:44 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[Bloggery]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[BDSM]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[The vanilla dialogues]]></category>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">/?p=2732</guid>

					<description><![CDATA[I have moved my site to HostGator due to the problems described below. Please excuse the mess on this new site. Someone is trying to get me removed from WordPress.com! Shall I lie and say that I am all agog to find out if they succeed in getting me censored? To be honest, it seems very unlikely. &#8230; <a href="/censored-and-welcomed/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Censored and Welcomed</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
					<wfw:commentRss>/censored-and-welcomed/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
			<slash:comments>2</slash:comments>
		
		
			</item>
	</channel>
</rss>
