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		<title>Against Sapiosexual Pride</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jan 2015 05:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[When I started out on FetLife, I encountered a lot of Worrying Things. Like the hordes of people declaring themselves to be sapiosexuals. My prejudice against sapiosexuality may surprise you. After all, I threw myself at the smartest guy I ever met. He enjoyed using my mind as much as he did my body. Our &#8230; <a href="/against-sapiosexual-pride/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">Against Sapiosexual Pride</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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		<title>I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Xiao Yingtai]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2014 04:03:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I usually update every 5 days. But my chronic aches have been bad. I&#8217;m officially out of pre-written posts. Will I manage another one by 1 August? Wish me luck! The French have a word for it: l&#8217;esprit d&#8217;escalier. Literally, staircase wit. The perfect retort that only occurs to you after it&#8217;s too late. But &#8230; <a href="/i-wish-i-had-said-that/" class="more-link">Continue reading <span class="screen-reader-text">I Wish I&#8217;d Said That</span> <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
		
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